Since we don’t go to the movies all that often, I’m all about doing what we can to prepare kids for movies before we go. I’m a nervous kind of mama who, for the longest time, started Finding Nemo after his mom (gulp!) dropped out of the picture and who fast-forwarded the scary parts of Cinderella, Monsters, Inc., and any other movie with hunters, fires, or kid-engulfing natural disasters.
Before we commit to any new-to-us movie, I wildly scan common sense media, and I’m proud to say that usually–usually!–my husband will do the same.
I definitely think a little pre-movie research is important when kids are as young as mine. Quite honestly, sleep is too precious for all of us, and I think their little brains and hearts are too precious to put at risk for tricky, in appropriate content.
Plus, if we can sneak in a bit of learning along the way, why wouldn’t we?
So when I heard that Disney PIXAR was working on a new movie with a red-haired, strong-spirited, Scottish heroine, I was intrigued. Having spent a semester in Scotland, there’s a special spot in my heart for the country. I wanted to take Maddy, Owen, and Cora, but I also wanted to make sure that they would be okay with it.
The preparation was wise, because, for many young ones, as awesome as Brave is, it did have some startling parts.
Here’s the skinny. . .
- How to Prepare Your Kids to See Disney PIXAR’s Brave: It’s all about helping kids to activate schema, or getting their minds ready to connect with the concepts they’re about to read, see, or experience.
It’s not rocket science, but it’s not something to take for granted, either. Activating schema is something that with a teeny bit of preparation, all parents can do with relative ease. It can be as simple as recalling how a friend with a Scottish accent speaks or as involved as reading a book about Scotland before you head to the movies.
Brave mazes got the kids into the ‘Brave‘ spirit.
Before we went to the show, we played with some Brave printables, we looked at some Brave trailers, and of course, we talked about Scotland and its amazing geography and castles.
- Brave Printables: Most of Disney’s sites are amazing as far as the printables and activities they hold, and Brave’s site is no different.
We tried the Brave mazes and games; we danced the Brave highland dance at breakfast one day in the kitchen; and we talked about the Scottish words and phrases from the handy Brave glossary. We looked at the characters and talked about them.
- Brave Story and Movie Trailers: We also took a good, long look at what Brave was about as well as the trailers available on the site. It was really helpful for the kids to know what they’d see, especially the bear parts–some of the fighting and violence. I feel strongly that this preparation didn’t ruin the story; rather, it just gave them an idea of what they’d see so we could talk about it.
We watched some awesome Brave trailers:
- Scotland Geography & Castles: We happen to have several Scotland Castles books in our home, so we pulled them out before the movie–just to take a look at some of the castles and castle remains. The kids love them. We also skimmed a few photos of Scotland on the National Geographic site because goodness knows that the photos I took way back in college are totally awful.
- Talk to Kids about Legends: The focus of Brave is that Merida, the young, strong-spirited princes, wants to create her own fate and carve her own path. Her mom wants her to listen the messages in Scottish legends, but Merida refuses.
It’s important for kids to know what a legend is, so another option is to talk with them about legends–what they are, why they are important, and how they have shaped beliefs and ideas.
Want to do a little more pre-Brave movie preparation? Check out my pal Leticia’s Virtual Field Trip of Scotland on parents.com –it’s fabulous! And your kids will love the get-away!
If you can’t manage all of this pre-viewing fun before you go, just do what you can! Then perhaps when you come home, a great follow-up would be to incorporate some of these activities into your day. Enjoy!
fyi: My family and I received tickets to see a pre-screening show of Disney PIXAR’s Brave, though this is an unsponsored post. All opinions and ideas are my own, influenced only by my three little movie-goers and experience as a teacher and parent.
LOVE this! I always enjoying pairing some fun activity with the Disney movies. And the castles tie-in is so much fun – I’ve been trying to find a ‘local’ castle but alas, not one too close to Kansas City 🙂 There is one a few hours away, so maybe a day trip this summer. Great post Amy!
thank you SO much, Jacquie!! If you find any more relevant resources, please let me know–would love to add them here!
What a great post! We rarely go to the movies but after reading this post, I think I may feel more mentally prepared to tackle this adventure!
thanks so much, Stacey!! Let me know what you think!!
I wish I had seen this post a few days ago. I should have done my homework. I took my 6yr old son and 4 yr old neighbor girl. She had seen it already and said she liked it. We had a few hours to burn and it was playing at a discount theater around the corner. We ended up leaving halfway through, the bear scenes were way too much for my son. I had no clue there was even a bad scary bear in it. I get the bad mom award for this one. Big time! Luckily by giving him the choice to leave, he hasn’t suffered any lack of sleep or worry (so far). He even went to the woods with his dad the next day. I count myself lucky and I will not make that mistake again.