When I had kids, it was like hitting the jackpot in more ways than one.
Not only did I have three little sweets to love on, I was able to play with them, teach them, and support their early learning–putting into action all of the tricks of the trade that I learned through my classroom teaching and in my Reading Specialist program.
Long, long ago, I envisioned myself volunteering in my kids’ schools several times a week, helping out where needed and really rockin’ the PTA.
Right about now that’s not happening.
The reality is that I’ve morphed from a stay-at-home mom who tutored a few times a week to a work-at-home mom who needs to do just that–work–while my kids are at school. Even in the teeeny, tiny 90 minutes of free time I had three mornings a week while Owen and Cora were in preschool last year, I zipped home, pounded out some articles, sent out queries, managed clients, and buzzed around on my blog and we teach.
While I’m certainly doing something I love–writing about teaching and learning for awesome, reputable publications, reviewing and writing curriculum, and a bit of this and that, while maintaining a pretty flexible schedule–I never would have guessed I’d be here even two or three years ago.
And I never would have guessed that my real life would have shattered my dreams of becoming an elementary school volunteer superstar.
However, like many, I have carved out my own, perfect-for-me ways of supporting my children’s school that fits my schedule and works for our family.
I am proud to support my school. . . MY way.
Even playing school at home supports your school–there are tons of ways to show support!
- Kindergarten Orientation: Two years ago, when Maddy began Kindergarten, I enjoyed her Kindergarten Orientation. I liked it, but I didn’t love it. And I so wanted to love it. I needed to love it.
So I joined the Kindergarten Orientation Committee that year so I could kinda-just-a-little-bit tweak it and be that happy, welcoming face I needed to see when I walked in. And the following year, I took the reins, and now I’m in charge.
We’re working on adding tours for families, making everyone feel welcome, and keeping the whole event simple but meaningful.
And only because I worked with an incredible administrative team, fabulous Kindergarten teachers, awesome support staff, and a handful of super-duper volunteers (thanks to Volunteer Spot!!), it was a success. And I’ll keep doing it as long as I am able, because this event is important to me–and it’s really nice to plan an event, facilitate it, and then have it be over until the next year.
I’m already looking forward to planning this spring’s Orientation.
- Family Mentoring Program: Two years ago, I was a totally freaked out, new-to-elementary school parent. Being on the other side of the teacher’s desk was foreign to me, and I was a mess.
It’s one thing to have the school event calendar in hand; it’s another thing to understand the culture of a school, and that’s what I was missing. I wanted Cliff’s Notes. I wanted a manual. I wanted a friend who knew the ropes and could fill me in.
So after meeting with our principal this year, I created a Family Mentoring Program at our school.
It’s a Guide-type program where we connect one ‘seasoned’ family (the Guides) to one ‘new-to-the-school’ family (New Families). We have cute and catchy names, and we’re learning as we go, but so far, we’ve got 15 families on board–a pretty good start for a new program!
If you’re interested in starting your own Family Mentoring Program, you can use my document (the Family Mentoring Program) and tweak it to fit your needs.
Here’s what I did:
- emailed the principal and explained my proposed the program;
- met with the principal to discuss it;
- sent an information sheet to our PTA to solicit Guide Families;
- sent information over our PTA list serve about the program;
- spoke at Kindergarten Orientation about the program and included an information sheet and hard copy sign-up sheet in each family’s folder;
- created a Google doc for online sign-ups;
- matched families;
- sent an email introduction to both Guide Family and New Family;
- encouraged pairs to connect at the Spring Fair (or pool, park, etc);
- included an information sheet and hard copy sign-up sheet in each family’s back-to-school folder;
- offered participating families a ‘free’ PTA family directory.
So now that the program’s established, I connect families as needed, hand out directories, and send out email reminders. There’s probably a ton more I could be doing to make the program much more awesome, but right now, this is all I can handle.
But I honestly feel good knowing that other new-to-the-school families have an opportunity to meet others and find support if they want–or need it. I know I sure did.
- Twitter: I tweet for our school. Seriously.
It took a bit of coercing, and I’m not sure many people follow my tweets, but I use Twitter each day, so I thought that creating an account for our school wouldn’t be too hard. And it wasn’t.
I set the badboy up with a @[schoolname]pta , added our logo to the profile, and I was good to go. I created a Bring Twitter to Our School handout for those who were interested. The PTA communication chair sends out information to our list serve, and I cut it to 140 characters and tweet it.
If you think you want to bring Twitter to your school, here’s the Twitter Information for School Blank handout. Tweak it, and let me know how it goes!
- Co-Room Parent: yep. I couldn’t even go for the gold solo. Last year, under extreme, last-minute coercion, I agreed to be co-room mom with a woman I had never even met. Turns out, she is one of the coolest gals around, and we had an absolute blast.
We chatted for hours ‘planning parties’ while our kids ran crazy around the house, and we laughed our way through our silly Halloween and Valentine’s Day parties. We were a great team, and being partners in room-parent crime was a riot. I’d totally do it again with her in a heartbeat.
Being Co-Room Mom made writing the Volunteer Spot Class Party Guide eBook (it’s free! they all are!) much more meaningful for me, because I knew–firsthand–how desperately Room Parents need those ideas. Check it out.
And be sure to check out the free Room Mom Survival Guide, eBook or use the sample back-to-school signup sheets to help you if you decide to support your school as a room parent.
When we first had kids, my husband openly admitted that he worried about my participation in our children’s schooling:
You really have to promise me you’re not going to become one of those parents, Ame. You can’t call the teacher every day. You can’t email every day. You can’t just walk in the classroom; you have to know that our kids will be fine, and they will have great teachers and not-so-great teachers, and either way, they’ll be fine.
He was correct when he said that our kids would be fine–no matter the teacher–but he was off when he thought I’d be a school and teacher-stalker. We were both wrong. I’m just not the volunteer super mom I thought I’d be–I don’t have the time.
But I am supporting our school. . . my way. And it feels fine to me.
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