Oh, friends.
How things change as our kids get older, right?
After years of doing what we can to give our kids choices, listening to them,ย doing all we can but ultimately having the final say–our kids have expressed to us that they want more of a voice in our family.
I get it.
So we’ve been having Family Meetings.
We have only recently begun to have regular Family Meetings, and though they are not perfect, I do think they help.’
We’re still learning. Aren’t we all?
Here’s the skinny. . .
How to Have a Family Meeting–What Works for Us:ย
It’s been simple.
I created a pretty basic Family Meeting Sheet.
And any time anyone wants to call a Family Meeting, he or she may do so.
The first time we held one, I clipped the Family Meeting sheet onto a clip board, and I set it on the table.
And as the kids came and went through the day, they filled it out.
By the time the meeting rolled around, everyone was ready–and curious.
We said,
Okay, guys. So you’ve asked for more say in our family, so here we are. We’re here to work out the kinks and hopefully make things move more smoothly around here.
There are a few ground rules:ย
- Everyone listens.
- Everyone speaks.
- Everyone acts respectfully, no matter what.
In Lord of the Flies style, anyone who spoke held an object–I think ours was a stuffed Mario or Yoshi. That way, there was no interrupting and only listening.
And really? From that point on, we talked through the agenda–what my husband and I planned and what the kids added–and we worked out the kinks.
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Here’s a BLANK Family Meeting sheet if you’d likeย to download it as a pdf and use it as your own:ย family meeting notice blank | teachmama.com
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Here’s our Family Meeting sheet if you’d like to download it as a pdf and use it as your own:ย family meeting notice OURS | teachmama.com
(Please, if you choose to share it–and we hope you do!–please share this post instead of the attachment page. Thank you!)
What does your family do? Do you hold regular Family Meetings? I’d love to hear it!
What has worked? What hasn’t?
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