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how every family can start the school year off right

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Several years ago, I wrote about how to make the school year a smashing success, or. . . actually how to make the school year as successful as humanly possible.

It included 10 easy steps that any family could follow in order to start the school year off on the right foot.ย 

I just looked back at it, and I decided it’s totally worth sharing again, because, well, with a little prep and a little thought, every family can start the school year off on a positive note.

how to start the school year off right

Every one of us wants the school year to be successful for our children–and us–so here’s a few simple ‘tricks of the trade’ coming from not only a parent of three elementary schoolers but also an educator who has been ‘on the other side’.

And sure, my husband–also an educator and school administrator–added his two cents’ so we’ve really got it covered here.ย  Now we just have to make sure we’re doing these 10 simple things–

Here’s the skinny. . .

How Every Family Can Start the School Year Off Right

Here they are–successful new-school-year survival tips, in no particular order, so that we all start the school year off in the best way (humanly) possible.ย 

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1. Make early and frequent contact with your childโ€™s teacher.

Donโ€™t be afraid to send an email if you have a question or concern, or just send a note to say โ€˜hiโ€™ and introduce yourself. Ask how you can support classroom learning at home, and ask how you can help the teacherโ€“by classroom volunteering or doing what you can at home.

Have your child write a Hello Teacher Note before school starts or even during the first week or month of school so that she feels a special connection with her teacher. It helps!

successful school year know friends

2. Know your childโ€™s friends.

Plan a weekend play date, even if itโ€™s only for an hour or two, and donโ€™t let the kids hide away downstairs or up in your kiddoโ€™s room. Make a snack together, play a game together, or pull out a craft to do together.

Get to know these little friends now, and listen to how everyone interacts. If necessary, jump in if you donโ€™t like what youโ€™re hearing and talk about how kind friends speak to each other, how to share. or how to take turns. Ignoring behavior weโ€™re not comfortable with is just like saying itโ€™s okay.

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successful school year know friends

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3. Eat at least two dinners together each week.

Itโ€™s hard. Verrrry hard, I know, with soccer practices, lessons, and late work days. But sitting down to dinner as a family has been proven to lead to healthier kids, happier families, and stronger family relationships.

Itโ€™s a great time to talk about the day, make sure your kids are chewing with their mouths closed (really!), and to actually sit down and look at your cute kids before they run off and turn into 20-year-olds tomorrow night. And the meal? Doesnโ€™t have to be fancy. Just has to be something on the table that you eat together.

successful school year home for everything

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4. Make a home for everything.

When your kiddo walks in the door, shoes make a beeline for the shoe shelf, lunchbox gets emptied then heads to his landing pad on the counter, backpack drops in the box. No questions asked.ย 

Let’s face it, it’s hard to stay organized once the chaos of school begins.ย 

Then when you get a second, unload the take-home folder and recycle (yesโ€“recycle immediately!) the papers you know you wonโ€™t need, hang up one โ€˜super-starโ€™ assignment on the fridge, file the important papers in your file folder, and put the nightโ€™s homework on the table where your child does homework. Done. Check. Move onto the next thing.

successful school year homework

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5. Create a structured time and place for homework.

For some, it works to get homework completed immediately after walking in the door and finishing snack; for others, homeworkโ€™s best saved for after dinner. It doesnโ€™t matter when you chooseโ€“just make a choice and stick with it.

Everyone fares better with routine, so start one for homework asap.

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successful school year school

6. Become a familiar face at school.

If you walk to school, introduce yourself to the administrators (and donโ€™t be afraid!) while theyโ€™re out on bus duty and say hello each time you see him or her. Say hello to the secretaries and be extra nice to them because their job is not easy, either. Donโ€™t expect these busy people to remember your name right away, but use their names when addressing them if you can.

If you are able, join the PTA or PTO, but donโ€™t sweat it if you canโ€™tโ€“you can still help in other ways. Consider asking the PTO President or School Director how you can helpโ€“from home. Iโ€™m sure sheโ€™ll come up with something.

If you feel a little motivated, give the Class Parent Role a try!

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successful school year ask and listen

7. Ask your child questions and listen to the answers.

Yes:Hi, Honey, so happy to see you! What did you do in P.E. today? OR What book did you read in Reading Group? OR What was your favorite part of your lunch? OR Did you like about the assembly today?

No:Hi, Honey! Did you have a good day?

Shoot for specific, open-ended questions and go with whatever he wants to talk about. Close-ended questions (that result in a yes or no answer) stop conversation before it begins. And rapid-fire questions about what you want to know but what heโ€™s not ready to share are enough to make a kid want to turn around and run back to the bus for safety.

So make sure you breatheโ€“and let your child breathe, too. And what isnโ€™t covered on the walk home can be covered during dinner or at bedtime.

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successful school year extra curricular

8. Get your kids involved in at least one extra-curricular activity.

Even if itโ€™s one little thing that gives them a chance to interact with other kids and burn some steam, it counts.

Whether itโ€™s a community sport, a craft club, a scouting group, or a youth group, it doesnโ€™t matter. Kiddos need some little something to call their own when theyโ€™re young. And even if an extra-curricular is not in the budget, make it a goal to attend a free event at the library, church, or in the community several times a month.

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successful school year meet parents

9. Meet parents.

Respond to the Room Parentโ€™s plea for help, and remember her name when you see her at Back-to-School night or at the class party.

Get to know the moms, dads, grandparents, and sitters who walk their kids to school or the bus stop. Ask parentsโ€“especially the seasoned onesโ€“questions, and learn a little from them if you can. Learn which kids belong to which parents. Exchange contact information so that you can text someone to give you a hand if youโ€™re running late one afternoon, or meet up at the playground after school.dd

successful school year thankful

10. Be thankful. Be supportive. Be grateful.

Teachersโ€™ jobs are seriously more difficult than most people can imagine. The amount of work that they doโ€“during the week and on the weekendsโ€“to prepare lessons, ready their classroom, research best practices, work with specialists, grade schoolwork, respond to parents, attend meetings, and (for many) continue their own educationโ€“is insane.

So we need to be thankful for their hard workโ€“today and every dayโ€“not just Teacher Appreciation Week or at the end of the year. Sign your emails with a sincere, โ€˜thank you for all you doโ€˜ and mean it. Ask what you can do to support them, and follow through.

Say โ€˜thanksโ€™ to the administration, the para-educators, the specialists, the custodians, and the lunchroom workers because theyโ€™re all working towards creating a safe environment for your child to meet with success and have the best year possible. So why wouldnโ€™t you want to be thankful for, supportive of, and grateful for this school community?

And there you have it-just 10 quickie ways that you can start the school year off on the right foot.ย 

What are we missing? Let me know!

Want all of these reminders in a happy little printable?

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We can do this–I know it!

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